Getting Help For Someone Else
Does a Gambler you know seem a bit off?
Gambling can give anyone an uneasy feeling, but sometimes it takes a loved one like you to see it as a problem. If you’re worried a friend or family member’s gambling is getting out of hand, we’ll show you how to give them the support they deserve.
Understand The Signs
Gambling isn’t in your favor, it’s meant to be addictive. If your gambling feels at odds with you, it’s not your fault. Learn the common signs of problem gambling, and you’ll be on your way to understanding your own risk.
- They cannot stop gambling, even when it’s hurting them
- They bet money they cannot afford to lose
- They bet other people’s money
- They steal to bet
- Gambling is all they think about
- Gambling is the main way they escape
- Asking others to bail them out when they gambled money away
- Lying about the time and money they spend gambling
- Gambling more after a loss to win back the loss
- Gambling is killing their relationships
You Need Support, Too
Problem gambling affects more than the gambler. It can put serious financial and emotional stress on family members and loved ones too. While it’s normal for this to cause feelings of anger, grief, distrust, or isolation, it’s important to remember that this addiction is not their fault, or yours.
You can better support a problem gambler by first taking a few steps to protect yourself from financial struggles that may come from their gambling:
Step One
Seek professional advice about how to protect your family’s credit and finances.
Step Two
Do not lend the gambler money or pay his or her debts.
Step Three
Maintain separate bank accounts and credit cards, and remove your name from joint accounts to avoid inheriting debt.
Step Four
If possible, take control of the family’s finances and limit access to cash.
Step Five
Budget and allow each member of the family some spending money, including the problem gambler.
Step Six
Check the mail yourself for bills.
Help is available when you need it
Problem gambling is a serious issue that affects many of us in Nebraska. Like other addictions, it can leave you feeling uneasy, off-balance and isolated. But you’re not alone. We’re here to point you, or someone you care about, in the right direction.
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We’re not fans of automated phone calls either. It’s always best to just talk directly to a real person. Our free, confidential problem gambling helpline is available to you 24/7, and led by people who understand what you’re going through, often through personal experience.
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